Shabbatness is a private, invite-only, not-for-profit service catering to busy single Jewish professionals in their 20s-40s looking to develop deeper connections through dinners, events, and volunteer programs on Shabbat.

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  • "We bonded instantly drinking Bourbon Shabbatini cocktails and eating Erin's homemade pecan pie over a game of Apples to Apples: Jewish Edition in the warm, welcoming environment of her apartment on a Friday evening one summer. We talked, we laughed, we drank and ate (a lot)... and last year, we got married in Costa Rica. Thank you, Shabbatness, and we love you, Erin!"
    Rachel & Adam
  • "Erin Davis is a Hitch, Bubbe, and cheerleader, all wrapped into one, helping young people in a generation that has trouble connecting in "real life" (i.e., off technology). True to her southern roots, she knows how to make others feel welcome and comfortable when they are in her presence, especially over her intimate Shabbatness events. My peers and I have made connections on all levels from personal to business through her program. I recommend everyone sign up for Shabbatness – it will be the best investment you can make in your social and love life!"
    Mickey, 28
  • "I have attended several Shabbatness events. The process of conducting in-person interviews of attendees allows Erin to curate the event and ensure a great mix of people. At the events, Erin is an AMAZING host setting up fun games and activities to get people schmoozing. Erin's events feel much more like I am meeting a friend of a friend at a party than a dating event."
    Dave, 32

1) Read the FAQ here.
2) Complete the questionnaire.
3) Sign up for an in-person interview.
That's it!